Fall outfit Idea #1 | Fallspiration

If you haven't go check out my YouTube video on fall outfit ideas this one of them. Its my favorite out of them all, both comfortable and warm.

 I had a lot of fun shooting this look for you guys, its been awhile since I've been in front of the camera as opposed to behind it and I had a blast! I'm a photography minor and I love any little project I can get my hands on. This outfit was a no brainier for me and I hope you guys like it as much as I do!

                    Top: AeroStyle Cardigan: WetSeal Jeans Forever21 Boots : WetSeal

                         

                               I couldn't resist throwing in this cheeky little one for you guys!(:

                                       

 During School and during fall, I enjoy busting out the comfy and cute sweaters and cardigans and so I threw this look together, its cute enough to be worn any where and it also makes for something cozy to wear to class!

   

 I also really enjoy the fact that you can still get away with a crop-top in the fall, you just need a sweater to cover that belly!  Lol

Face is all me guys! Lol

I genuinely hope you guys enjoyed this post and this outfit, I put a lot of work into the outfit and the a shoot its self so enjoy! Comfort and fashion is possible guys I promise!! See ya later!!

                                               XO Shiesa C. 

Fallspiration: As told by Shiesa

    Hey guys Shiesa here, I’m back with a vengeance and oh how I've missed you all so MUCH! And were revamping! It’s been quite a while and for that I apologize, I truly enjoy blogging here on the interwebs for you guys. To be able to balance school, work, YouTube, blogging and just general life I’m going to blog once or twice a week instead of three. I need a little room to vegg out and watch YouTube too ya know?

    If you haven’t yet go check out my YouTube channel and my latest video, it’s a Fall outfits ides video! www.youtube.com/theflyesa which leads me to my next point, this month will be a month of all things fall eventually leading into all things winter themed. This series will be called Fallspiration : As told by Shiesa , the things, tricks and tips to all things fall. This Friday will be an outfit post and Monday or Tuesday will, well you’ll just have to wait and see now won’t you?

   As bad as I've been with blogging or lack thereof I hope you guys still care for what I write. Because I’m changing and revamping my blog I want to let you guys know, it’s just me doing a lot more different types of blogs and being a little more free. I hope you guys enjoy and thanks a million and one for sticking by me.

Much Love xo Shiesa C. 

all that stress

too many things and not enough time? too many headaches and not enough sleep? you might be stressed
now if your new then disregard this statement lol, I've made a stress post already but as the time comes where the semester is almost over and finals are literally next week, i felt the need to chat on some maybe thoughts about dealing with the hair pulling, sleep reducing, book hitting stressful days I'm sure are fast approaching you as well like a bat out of hell or a train off its track's barreling towards you. i don't or rather didn't deal well with stress for a long time then i had an aha moment.

look at your stress in the perspective of you as a circle and your in a box, this box is your stress. overwhelming right? your box right now is probably huge. but now make a list of all the things that are stressing you out it doesn't matter what order, or what each thing is just make a list. now the things that aren't mental, like say a paper or an exam you need to study for. tackle that set aside a schedule or an allotted amount for all those things. less bearable right? smaller box now. (hopefully). with the mental aspects like say, your sad or angry at some major thing, sit down and asses why, who or what your *feeling* at or towards. now get up go make some tea and drink it. watch YouTube, zonk out to television, or read a book. don't over worry about these things take it make a list and go with it in steps and with your emotions mull over them and then talk it out or breath it out or even just let it go. in ten days is it going to matter? if it is then seriously talk it out and make lists galore. the box is now smaller,, yes? hopefully

last thing ill say before i go is that taking it and looking at in in size and shapes, stress that is, is a way to tackle the big scary thing in our guts and minds called stress. we cant help but become overwhelmed, but if we take it tackle it and shrink it down we can become better handled in the next situation. please take a moment and try this, hopefully it helps. love you all tons of love X's and Os shiesa.

bonus
WAYS I TAKE AWAY STRESS
read a book ( a leisure book NOT a textbook)
watch my favorite TV show
eating my favorite foods
reading blog posts
watching YouTube 
Talking with my best friends 
Window shopping online 

 i have a youtbe channel there i also have a youtube video on stress 
(dont laugh at my url)

youtube.com/TheFlyesa

Story of my life?

so again I'm in my English class, lols , all day every day.....
i enjoyed writing a poem in my last post so i thought what the hell lets do another one!!

this one is a thought provoker (aren't they all)

breath

how do you do that so well?
no worry lines, no dark circles
smiles every day
 no need to complain or make it seem like there's this constant rain?
you positive, happy and you let it be....
i wish i could be like you
breath slowly and take it with stride
i don't know why i cant
yet i envy you all the same
how, please tell me do you carry yourself in this way?
is there a frame work, a game at play
i haven't invested in?
i want to be and breath
smile so simply
teach me?
...........
its not hard
heady or tough
 all i do is throw in some trust
the day will go well smooth and calm
as long as you realize
God's got it
hes on our side
next week tomorrow or in an hour
these things that make us worry so
wont matter wont bother
because it is gone
there's more in this world and more at cost
than the petty things that seem so big
we worry we cry
but why?
just breath
just breath
its easier to do so
just breath just breath
because life is short
the little don't matter and the good is better
don't worry don't fuss
just breath just breath.....

its been quite a while

So guys i kind of fell off the face of the blogging world and for that i am sorry. i truly apologize.....
 i have been extremely busy with class and my work and with of all things YouTube. but i swear i didn't forget about my blog life. today's blog coincidentally is a poem by me for you.....

Stomp The Ground
id be lying if i said it didn't hurt me
when you pushed me down
 when you treated me like i was nothing more than the ground!
do i look like an ant?
something you can just stomp down?
it affected me i wont lie
but I'm stronger because of it
 i rose up
I'm high above the sky
i wont fall falter or cry
you're not worth my time
what do i look like? surely no ant am i
i will stomp the ground
shake the world
and surely make you proud
haha you thought you made me weak
 when in reality you made me, me
i understand now why you did it
but just so you know
i did it i won
I'm no amoeba in you mind
 I'm a giant
i stand tall proud and beautiful
ready to stomp the ground
ready to stomp the ground 

there it is a poem i have been working on, the lowercase letters are on purpose and i hope you enjoyed it and i hope you got a little inspiration from it. if you didn't know I'm Shiesa i like to write........
see you soon,, I'm going to try to post more often i promise. i love you all.

So as it is

   today's Thursday, its raining and dreadful but i remembered i have to write my blog. i cant say hey i don't want to write today but i remembered i made the commitment and when you make a commitment you should stick to it. so of course I'm trying to stick to my commitment, and be a good blogger. its hard i get sucked into my daily life and i often write these blogs on the fly (again big surprise I'm sitting in English writing this blog) i feel bad because i honestly do have pre planned things to write about yet i run out of time and do them the day of. okay enough my apologies and love (because i do love you all) time for today's post. 

   i was in psychology today and we were talking about women and our body image, how were objectified and how we ourselves seem to objectify ourselves. I'm not gonna lie i got a little angry, the standard that the world or rather America holds for how we as women must look really pisses me off. no ones perfect and every single woman no matter who you are or where you are is beautiful and special and wonderful no matter what. why (and i cant lie i often get picked up in this standard and hum drum of what we must look like, stupid society) why does it seem that we as young women and girls are we have to be put though this sort of jerk and pull of "we want equality we don't want to be objectified, were beautiful, amazing, smart, strong" to then be put down and knocked on our butts because " equality isn't as important if you're not a double d with a size 2 waist long legs a big butt, who takes 'exoctic' pictures and objectify our self because society gets to pick what beauty and a woman is" . it makes me angry and i don't agree with it all, i guarantee you that i will never ever be a size two with a big chest and super long legs. I'm not perfect, I'm not society's ideal of "beauty" but i am beautiful and so are you! 

    don't let America tell you what beauty is because we all are honestly who said that size two is even possible? really every photo we see, commercial we watch and magazine we read is extremely airbrushed and over photo shopped, do you and stay beautiful because beauty is what you make it. honestly i hate that we have to conform to and believe what the media and society tells us, lets just forget the lies and lives.
here is a YouTube video i saw that made me happy. her name is That Linguistic on YouTube and this video just says it all, i think. check it out and remember beauty is not only skin deep but mentally as well. love you all. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qaZ1orYNKuI 

her channel   http://www.youtube.com/user/thatlinguistic?feature=watch

How to breath....

So today was not a great day for me, at all but I was sitting here thinking to myself oh I have to do my blog today and I realized I can vent and say how I feel here and get a post up for the week, I know I know I didn't post last week and I'm sorry I got extremely busy, so I am sorry. here's today's post....

I feel constricted in how I voice the way I feel, I often when it comes to things people and activities I love I tend to try and please them and make them comfortable never voicing how I feel. I feel like I cant breath properly without having to stop and please someone or trying to fix a situation or say sorry or trying to even be honest. today was a trial of nerves for me, I had a very bad day. 

I figured why not tell you guys how I decompress and really let it out and finally breath, I do the following things 
I read, not for school or education but for enjoyment
I listen to music, generally something calm and a softer type of music not really an get on your feet and dance type of music because then I think it takes away from trying to feel better, more so in a decompressing sense.
I watch YouTube, any type of video just YouTube in general helps me divert my mind for a while. 
I drink tea, what a general thing to do but I do I love tea it calms me down and warms me up.
and I try to do other things to make me happy if not all of these things listed in conjunction with other things as well. I hate having the feeling that I cant be happy for the rest of my day so I try my best to make it better after what I feel was the worst is over. here's a video I made on being happy, 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tvfM7N_VXTA 

this is a jumbled post I know but lets just remember don't let the bad get to us and lets breath lets use our techniques we use to feel happy and breath and take all the good of your day and don't feel constricted in life. okay lets breath...........